"I don't know if I was a star. I was certainly working a lot and that was strange because there were good things about it and things that were difficult"
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The word "strange" is the tell. It suggests dissociation, the uncanny sensation of being in demand without feeling fully at home in the story being written about you. That’s a recognizable texture for child actors and young women in the industry: your face becomes familiar to strangers before you’ve had time to become familiar to yourself. In that gap, "star" starts to feel like something that happens to you, not something you are.
Her balancing act - "good things... and things that were difficult" - is deliberately unspecific, which reads like a protective instinct. She acknowledges costs without turning them into content. The subtext is restraint: she’s not interested in the confessional economy where pain is monetized as authenticity. Instead, she offers a controlled ambiguity that mirrors the experience she’s describing: a career that can be rewarding and disorienting at the same time.
It works because it punctures the fantasy without pretending to be above it. Not a takedown, not a love letter - a sober accounting from someone who learned that success can feel less like arrival than acceleration.
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| Topic | Career |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Connelly, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). I don't know if I was a star. I was certainly working a lot and that was strange because there were good things about it and things that were difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-star-i-was-certainly-55379/
Chicago Style
Connelly, Jennifer. "I don't know if I was a star. I was certainly working a lot and that was strange because there were good things about it and things that were difficult." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-star-i-was-certainly-55379/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know if I was a star. I was certainly working a lot and that was strange because there were good things about it and things that were difficult." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-star-i-was-certainly-55379/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




