"I don't know if we even mentioned UFOs. It was to find out why Barney was emotionally upset"
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The intent is practical and protective. She’s describing a clinical encounter - presumably hypnosis or counseling - and recalibrating what that encounter was for. By naming “emotionally upset” instead of “traumatized” or “terrified,” she chooses a phrase that sounds ordinary, almost domestic. That understatement works as strategy. It invites empathy from skeptics who might reject aliens but understand a husband unraveling. It also hints at how women, especially in mid-century America, often became the translators of men’s pain into language institutions would accept.
The subtext is sharper: the public wanted a mystery; she wanted a diagnosis. “To find out why” carries the weight of someone trying to make sense of fractured memory and social scrutiny at the same time. It’s not denying the extraordinary so much as refusing to let the extraordinary swallow the person. In a media ecosystem that rewards the sensational, Hill’s sentence is an attempt to reclaim authorship of their story - and to re-center the conversation on the psychological cost of being turned into a phenomenon.
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| Topic | Sadness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Betty. (n.d.). I don't know if we even mentioned UFOs. It was to find out why Barney was emotionally upset. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-we-even-mentioned-ufos-it-was-to-37918/
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Hill, Betty. "I don't know if we even mentioned UFOs. It was to find out why Barney was emotionally upset." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-we-even-mentioned-ufos-it-was-to-37918/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know if we even mentioned UFOs. It was to find out why Barney was emotionally upset." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-we-even-mentioned-ufos-it-was-to-37918/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

