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"I don't know of many evangelicals who want to deny gay couples their legal rights. However, most of us don't want to call it marriage, because we think that word has religious connotations, and we're not ready to see it used in ways that offend us"

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Campolo’s line is a careful piece of pastoral triangulation: it reaches toward liberal civil equality while keeping a firm hand on the symbolic gate of “marriage.” The first sentence sets a tone of reasonableness - evangelicals, he suggests, aren’t crusading to strip rights; they’re simply wary of a word. That’s a strategic repositioning. It shifts the conflict from material harm (denying protections) to cultural injury (feeling “offended”), recasting evangelicals as reluctant participants in a semantic dispute rather than political actors shaping the law.

The subtext is that language is power, and “marriage” functions as a kind of moral trademark. Campolo grants the state’s authority to confer legal rights, but reserves the spiritual brand for the church’s preferred use. By framing marriage as a term with “religious connotations,” he implies that secular society is borrowing sacred property without permission. That move both softens and sharpens the argument: softens it by conceding civil liberties; sharpens it by asserting a veto over public vocabulary.

Context matters: Campolo emerged as a prominent evangelical voice trying to temper culture-war absolutism, especially as same-sex marriage became the defining flashpoint of American religion and politics in the 2000s and early 2010s. His rhetoric reads like an attempt to hold together a coalition that’s cracking - reassuring moderates that evangelicals aren’t cruel, while signaling to traditionalists that the boundary still stands. The tell is “we’re not ready”: it admits the issue isn’t purely theological; it’s about a community’s capacity to adapt without feeling it has surrendered its identity.

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Campolo, Tony. (2026, January 16). I don't know of many evangelicals who want to deny gay couples their legal rights. However, most of us don't want to call it marriage, because we think that word has religious connotations, and we're not ready to see it used in ways that offend us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-of-many-evangelicals-who-want-to-deny-122047/

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Campolo, Tony. "I don't know of many evangelicals who want to deny gay couples their legal rights. However, most of us don't want to call it marriage, because we think that word has religious connotations, and we're not ready to see it used in ways that offend us." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-of-many-evangelicals-who-want-to-deny-122047/.

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"I don't know of many evangelicals who want to deny gay couples their legal rights. However, most of us don't want to call it marriage, because we think that word has religious connotations, and we're not ready to see it used in ways that offend us." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-of-many-evangelicals-who-want-to-deny-122047/. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.

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Tony Campolo (born March 25, 1935) is a Clergyman from USA.

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