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Love & Passion Quote by Omar Sharif

"I don't know what sex appeal is. I don't think you can have sex appeal knowingly. The people who seduce me personally are the people who seem not to know they're seductive, and not to know they have sex appeal"

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Sharif flips the usual script of glamour: sex appeal, in his telling, isn’t a skill you practice but a spell you accidentally cast. Coming from an actor - a professional manufacturer of charm - that confession lands with a sly credibility. He’s not denying seduction exists; he’s arguing that the moment you try to “perform” it, you drain it of the very thing people respond to: unselfconsciousness.

The key move is his suspicion of the knowing. “Knowingly” reads like a critique of calculation, the kind that turns desire into a strategy and a person into a product. Sharif’s ideal seducer isn’t innocent in a naive sense; they’re simply not busy monitoring their own effect. That lack of self-surveillance creates a more potent intimacy because it feels unengineered. In modern terms, it’s an argument against personal branding in the realm of attraction: the more you curate, the more the audience senses the seams.

There’s also a faint melancholy under the elegance. If the most alluring people “seem not to know,” then sex appeal becomes something you can’t reliably summon, monetize, or even keep. It’s fragile, context-dependent, and often visible only from the outside. Sharif, a matinee idol whose image was famously consumed and managed by others, is quietly reclaiming a private metric of desire - one that resists publicity and punishes performance.

In an industry built on selling magnetism, his line functions as both romantic preference and cultural critique: the hottest thing is authenticity, especially when it isn’t trying to be.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sharif, Omar. (2026, January 17). I don't know what sex appeal is. I don't think you can have sex appeal knowingly. The people who seduce me personally are the people who seem not to know they're seductive, and not to know they have sex appeal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-what-sex-appeal-is-i-dont-think-you-75509/

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Sharif, Omar. "I don't know what sex appeal is. I don't think you can have sex appeal knowingly. The people who seduce me personally are the people who seem not to know they're seductive, and not to know they have sex appeal." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-what-sex-appeal-is-i-dont-think-you-75509/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know what sex appeal is. I don't think you can have sex appeal knowingly. The people who seduce me personally are the people who seem not to know they're seductive, and not to know they have sex appeal." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-what-sex-appeal-is-i-dont-think-you-75509/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Omar Sharif (born April 10, 1932) is a Actor from Egypt.

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