"I don't know why people keep banging on about the '60s. I came from a conventional family and I didn't go off with different people - I rather wish I had now, seeing all the fun everyone else was having"
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Then she swerves into something more intimate: not rebellion, but biography. “I came from a conventional family” lands like an admission of class and upbringing as destiny. The ‘60s here aren’t a party you either attended or skipped; they’re a permission structure that not everyone could access equally. When she says she didn’t “go off with different people,” it’s not coyness so much as a reminder that sexual freedom was unevenly distributed - by gender, by respectability, by the costs of being labeled. Birkin’s persona is often remembered as emblematic of that era’s erotic modernity, which makes the confession sharper: the icon is confessing she didn’t live inside her own myth.
The last clause - “I rather wish I had now” - turns nostalgia into a small, stinging counter-history. It’s not regret about morality; it’s regret about experience, about missing a moment that later got canonized as “fun.” Underneath is a wry awareness of how memory works: we don’t just envy what happened, we envy the stories that survived.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Birkin, Jane. (2026, January 16). I don't know why people keep banging on about the '60s. I came from a conventional family and I didn't go off with different people - I rather wish I had now, seeing all the fun everyone else was having. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-people-keep-banging-on-about-the-133037/
Chicago Style
Birkin, Jane. "I don't know why people keep banging on about the '60s. I came from a conventional family and I didn't go off with different people - I rather wish I had now, seeing all the fun everyone else was having." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-people-keep-banging-on-about-the-133037/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know why people keep banging on about the '60s. I came from a conventional family and I didn't go off with different people - I rather wish I had now, seeing all the fun everyone else was having." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-people-keep-banging-on-about-the-133037/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


