"I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book"
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The subtext is power handled with restraint. An actress in the early-to-mid 20th century is used to being watched, wanted, written onto. Here the famous novelist is the one performing, sending language across a distance, hoping for a reaction. Wray’s tone suggests she understood the asymmetry: his infatuation is his story, not hers. Yet she doesn’t mock him. “Lovely” repeats like a softening agent, turning potential cruelty into appraisal.
The killer line is the last one: “I used some of them in my book.” It’s not a gotcha; it’s a small, bracing truth about how art and life trade materials. The unreturned love still produced something usable, even valuable. In a single beat, Wray shifts from object of longing to editor of it, reclaiming the narrative economy: he wrote to possess her attention; she kept what worked on the page. That’s not romance. That’s authorship.
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Wray, Fay. (n.d.). I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/
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Wray, Fay. "I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/.
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"I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.






