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Love Quote by Fay Wray

"I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book"

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There is a particular kind of Hollywood candor in Fay Wray’s recollection: affectionate, unsentimental, and quietly self-protective. She doesn’t flatter herself with a grand romance or apologize for not returning it. The bluntness of “He didn’t get even the slightest response from me” lands like a door gently but firmly shut. Then she pivots to craft: “his letters were lovely,” “the poems… were lovely.” Wray refuses the expected script where desire must be validated by reciprocity. Instead, she validates the writing.

The subtext is power handled with restraint. An actress in the early-to-mid 20th century is used to being watched, wanted, written onto. Here the famous novelist is the one performing, sending language across a distance, hoping for a reaction. Wray’s tone suggests she understood the asymmetry: his infatuation is his story, not hers. Yet she doesn’t mock him. “Lovely” repeats like a softening agent, turning potential cruelty into appraisal.

The killer line is the last one: “I used some of them in my book.” It’s not a gotcha; it’s a small, bracing truth about how art and life trade materials. The unreturned love still produced something usable, even valuable. In a single beat, Wray shifts from object of longing to editor of it, reclaiming the narrative economy: he wrote to possess her attention; she kept what worked on the page. That’s not romance. That’s authorship.

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Wray, Fay. (n.d.). I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/

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Wray, Fay. "I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/.

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"I don't know why Sinclair Lewis fell in love with me. He didn't get even the slightest response from me. But his letters were lovely. And the poems he wrote me were lovely. I used some of them in my book." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-why-sinclair-lewis-fell-in-love-with-46493/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Fay Wray (September 15, 1907 - August 8, 2004) was a Actress from USA.

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