"I don't like work... but I like what is in work - the chance to find yourself. Your own reality - for yourself, not for others - which no other man can ever know"
About this Quote
The subtext is quintessential Conrad: "finding yourself" is not a spa-day epiphany; it is an encounter with whatever remains when comfort, audience, and self-flattery fall away. He insists on "your own reality - for yourself, not for others", which reads like a rebuke to performance. Identity here isn't a brand or a social role; it's the inward reckoning you can only reach when you're too occupied to curate.
That final clause - "which no other man can ever know" - lands with a lonely thud. It's not romantic individualism so much as existential insulation. Even at your most competent, most legible, the core experience of being you is sealed off. Work doesn't make you visible to others; it makes you unavoidable to yourself.
Context matters: Conrad, an immigrant seaman turned novelist, wrote obsessively about responsibility, fatigue, and moral testing under extreme conditions. In his world, "work" often means duty in the teeth of chaos. The intent isn't to sanctify labor; it's to argue that effort is one of the few reliable ways to strip life of excuses and force a confrontation with the self you can't outsource.
Quote Details
| Topic | Work |
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| Source | Heart of Darkness, Joseph Conrad (1899), Part I — passage spoken by Marlow: "I don't like work - no man does - but I like what is in work, the chance to find yourself. Your own reality - for yourself, not for others - which no other man can ever know." |
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Conrad, Joseph. (2026, January 15). I don't like work... but I like what is in work - the chance to find yourself. Your own reality - for yourself, not for others - which no other man can ever know. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-like-work-but-i-like-what-is-in-work-the-166058/
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Conrad, Joseph. "I don't like work... but I like what is in work - the chance to find yourself. Your own reality - for yourself, not for others - which no other man can ever know." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-like-work-but-i-like-what-is-in-work-the-166058/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't like work... but I like what is in work - the chance to find yourself. Your own reality - for yourself, not for others - which no other man can ever know." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-like-work-but-i-like-what-is-in-work-the-166058/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






