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"I don't lose my temper often; about once every twenty years perhaps"

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Bogarde’s line lands like a well-cut suit: understated, expensive, and quietly menacing. “I don’t lose my temper often” sounds like the familiar PR varnish of restraint, but the follow-up - “about once every twenty years perhaps” - is a precision twist. It’s not humility; it’s calibration. The joke is that his anger is so rare it becomes an event, a kind of eclipse. And eclipses, by definition, draw an audience.

The intent is image-making. As an actor who spent decades navigating the tight corridor between matinee-idol surface and serious, risk-taking work, Bogarde understood that temperament is part of the brand. This isn’t the chaos of the “difficult genius”; it’s the controlled threat of someone who prefers discipline but knows the power of withdrawing it. The subtext reads: when I finally get angry, it’s justified, memorable, and you will remember you were in the room.

There’s also class-coded Britishness here: emotion as something managed, rationed, converted into dry wit. The “perhaps” at the end is doing a lot of work - a feint of modesty that makes the claim sound less like bragging even as it heightens the mystique. In an industry that rewards both charm and volatility, Bogarde sells a third option: restraint as dominance, calm as leverage. The line isn’t confession; it’s a warning delivered with impeccable manners.

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Bogarde, Dirk. (2026, January 16). I don't lose my temper often; about once every twenty years perhaps. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-lose-my-temper-often-about-once-every-121818/

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Bogarde, Dirk. "I don't lose my temper often; about once every twenty years perhaps." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-lose-my-temper-often-about-once-every-121818/.

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"I don't lose my temper often; about once every twenty years perhaps." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-lose-my-temper-often-about-once-every-121818/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Dirk Bogarde (March 28, 1921 - May 8, 1999) was a Actor from England.

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