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"I don't make my own schedule - it's constructed around my sons' school schedules"

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A small domestic admission that quietly detonates a larger cultural myth: the fantasy that creative life runs on pure autonomy. Jane Haddam’s line isn’t a complaint or a humblebrag. It’s a corrective. By refusing the glamour of the self-directed writer’s day, she re-centers the invisible architecture that actually holds many careers together: children’s timetables, school drop-offs, holidays, sick days, the constant recalibration of attention.

The phrasing matters. “I don’t make” rejects the romantic notion of authorship as sovereign control. “It’s constructed” is even sharper: schedules aren’t discovered, they’re engineered under constraint, like scaffolding around a building still under renovation. That passive construction also smuggles in a hard truth about power. Who gets to “make” a schedule, and who lives inside one? Even when the speaker is successful enough to be quoted, the household’s institutional calendar - the school’s - wins.

As a writer, Haddam is also gesturing at how art gets produced in the real world: in fragments, in the margins, in the hours that remain after care work has claimed first rights. The subtext isn’t simply “family comes first.” It’s that professional identity, especially for mothers, is often negotiated through logistics rather than ideology. The intent is pragmatic, almost dry, but culturally loud: creativity isn’t exempt from dependency; it’s shaped by it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Haddam, Jane. (2026, January 16). I don't make my own schedule - it's constructed around my sons' school schedules. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-make-my-own-schedule-its-constructed-136042/

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Haddam, Jane. "I don't make my own schedule - it's constructed around my sons' school schedules." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-make-my-own-schedule-its-constructed-136042/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't make my own schedule - it's constructed around my sons' school schedules." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-make-my-own-schedule-its-constructed-136042/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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