"I don't mean to make you nervous, but unfortunately I have to"
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As a musician and longtime leader of the Philadelphia Orchestra, Ormandy worked inside a culture where authority is performed in real time. A conductor can’t just request excellence; he has to summon it from dozens of people at once, often in rehearsal conditions that are repetitive, exhausting, and vulnerable. “I don’t mean to” offers the human face - the acknowledgment that nerves are personal and unpleasant. “But unfortunately I have to” flips the power dynamic back into place: the ensemble’s comfort is secondary to the music’s demands.
The subtext is managerial, too. Ormandy is signaling standards without launching into a lecture. It’s efficient leadership: soften the blow, then make the expectation non-negotiable. It also hints at the paradox of classical performance, where the goal is effortless beauty built on high-stakes scrutiny. You don’t get a seamless sheen by letting people relax into mediocrity; you get it by keeping them just unsettled enough to listen harder, count cleaner, and take the phrase seriously.
Behind the humor is a clear philosophy: nerves aren’t a defect to eliminate. They’re a tool, and he’s willing to be the one who picks it up.
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Ormandy, Eugene. (2026, January 15). I don't mean to make you nervous, but unfortunately I have to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mean-to-make-you-nervous-but-unfortunately-161255/
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Ormandy, Eugene. "I don't mean to make you nervous, but unfortunately I have to." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mean-to-make-you-nervous-but-unfortunately-161255/.
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"I don't mean to make you nervous, but unfortunately I have to." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mean-to-make-you-nervous-but-unfortunately-161255/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










