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"I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me"

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There is a sly kind of self-portrait in this line: the modern mind as both debate club and battleground. Powers frames introspection not as calm reflection but as an argument with a worthy opponent - yourself - where the real sting isn’t conflict, it’s defeat. That twist lands because it treats self-critique like a competitive sport, which exposes the ego hiding inside even our most “thoughtful” moments. We like to imagine inner dialogue as growth; Powers suggests it’s also a bid to stay on top of our own narrative.

The subtext is a quiet indictment of control. Arguing with yourself is safe because you set the rules, assign the evidence, choose the memories that get admitted. Losing, then, isn’t just being wrong; it’s the unnerving experience of discovering you can’t fully manage your own conclusions. That’s where anxiety enters: the fear that some deeper part of you has a better case than the persona you’ve been defending.

As a novelist, Powers has long been preoccupied with systems - brains, technologies, ecosystems - and with the uncomfortable fact that “the self” is less a commander than a committee. The line reads like a compact philosophy of consciousness in an age of information overload: we’re constantly processing, disputing, revising. The problem isn’t complexity; it’s the moment complexity humiliates certainty. The joke is sharp because it’s true: we can tolerate inner turbulence, right up until it proves we were never fully in charge.

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Powers, Richard. (n.d.). I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/

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Powers, Richard. "I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/.

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"I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Richard Powers (born June 18, 1957) is a Novelist from USA.

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