"I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me"
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The subtext is a quiet indictment of control. Arguing with yourself is safe because you set the rules, assign the evidence, choose the memories that get admitted. Losing, then, isn’t just being wrong; it’s the unnerving experience of discovering you can’t fully manage your own conclusions. That’s where anxiety enters: the fear that some deeper part of you has a better case than the persona you’ve been defending.
As a novelist, Powers has long been preoccupied with systems - brains, technologies, ecosystems - and with the uncomfortable fact that “the self” is less a commander than a committee. The line reads like a compact philosophy of consciousness in an age of information overload: we’re constantly processing, disputing, revising. The problem isn’t complexity; it’s the moment complexity humiliates certainty. The joke is sharp because it’s true: we can tolerate inner turbulence, right up until it proves we were never fully in charge.
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Powers, Richard. (n.d.). I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/
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Powers, Richard. "I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/.
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"I don't mind arguing with myself. It's when I lose that it bothers me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-arguing-with-myself-its-when-i-lose-106087/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







