"I don't mind if somebody comes up to me and shakes my hand, but if I'm in the middle of a restaurant and somebody asks me for a picture, I can be a jerk and say no, or I can say yes and draw more attention to myself, which is exactly the opposite of what I want"
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The intent is disarmingly practical: he’s explaining why a "no" can be self-defense, not arrogance. The subtext is sharper. In the middle of a restaurant, the fan isn’t just asking him, they’re recruiting the entire room into the story. If he says yes, he becomes an event; if he says no, he becomes a villain. Either choice produces attention, the one thing he’s explicitly trying to avoid. The cruelty is structural: the culture of proof (pics or it didn’t happen) turns politeness into performance.
Context matters here because Culkin isn’t just any actor. He’s one of the most famous child stars in modern pop history, which means the public feels a weird proprietary intimacy with him. That lingering, nostalgic entitlement collides with an adult trying to move through ordinary life. His self-aware phrasing - "I can be a jerk" - is also a preemptive PR move, acknowledging the label before it’s assigned. It’s a quiet argument for boundaries in an economy that treats access as the price of being loved.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Culkin, Macaulay. (2026, January 16). I don't mind if somebody comes up to me and shakes my hand, but if I'm in the middle of a restaurant and somebody asks me for a picture, I can be a jerk and say no, or I can say yes and draw more attention to myself, which is exactly the opposite of what I want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-if-somebody-comes-up-to-me-and-shakes-115668/
Chicago Style
Culkin, Macaulay. "I don't mind if somebody comes up to me and shakes my hand, but if I'm in the middle of a restaurant and somebody asks me for a picture, I can be a jerk and say no, or I can say yes and draw more attention to myself, which is exactly the opposite of what I want." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-if-somebody-comes-up-to-me-and-shakes-115668/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't mind if somebody comes up to me and shakes my hand, but if I'm in the middle of a restaurant and somebody asks me for a picture, I can be a jerk and say no, or I can say yes and draw more attention to myself, which is exactly the opposite of what I want." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-mind-if-somebody-comes-up-to-me-and-shakes-115668/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.





