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Love & Passion Quote by Cher

"I don't need a man. But I'm happier with one. I like to have someone I can touch and squeeze and kiss. But I don't fold up and die if I don't have a man around"

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Cher lands the punchline before you can sentimentalize her. "I don't need a man" is the declaration pop culture expects from a woman who's survived the industry, the tabloids, and the long hangover of being publicly paired. Then she immediately complicates it: "But I'm happier with one". That pivot is the whole intent. She's not selling loneliness as virtue or coupling as destiny; she's rejecting the false binary that says independence must be emotionally sterile.

The subtext is a refusal to perform purity for either camp. Feminist talk shows, self-help gurus, and celebrity branding all love a clean arc: either you are fiercely self-sufficient or you are tragically incomplete. Cher insists on messier human math. Desire is real. Touch is real. The list - "touch and squeeze and kiss" - is deliberately physical, almost bluntly ordinary. No metaphors, no soulmates, just bodies and comfort. It undercuts the idea that wanting intimacy is a political betrayal.

Then comes the comedic steel: "I don't fold up and die". It's a cartoon image of feminine fragility, the old script where a woman without a man becomes a cautionary tale. Cher names that script and laughs at it, which is how she disarms it. Context matters: as a pop figure who built a persona on brash candor and reinvention, she turns autobiography into cultural correction. The line doesn't ask permission to want love; it just demands that wanting it not be confused with needing it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cher. (n.d.). I don't need a man. But I'm happier with one. I like to have someone I can touch and squeeze and kiss. But I don't fold up and die if I don't have a man around. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-need-a-man-but-im-happier-with-one-i-like-44681/

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Cher. "I don't need a man. But I'm happier with one. I like to have someone I can touch and squeeze and kiss. But I don't fold up and die if I don't have a man around." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-need-a-man-but-im-happier-with-one-i-like-44681/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't need a man. But I'm happier with one. I like to have someone I can touch and squeeze and kiss. But I don't fold up and die if I don't have a man around." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-need-a-man-but-im-happier-with-one-i-like-44681/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Cher (born May 20, 1946) is a Musician from USA.

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