"I don't think about what other people want from me"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of the expectation economy that shadows artists, especially women in pop: be vulnerable, but not messy; be strong, but not intimidating; evolve, but don’t alienate your core audience. McLachlan’s career has been wrapped in a particular kind of public narrative - the earnest balladeer, the emotional truth-teller, the philanthropic face of Lilith Fair’s promise. Those labels can become soft cages. This quote pushes back against the idea that her value is negotiated by fans, critics, industry executives, or a cultural script that wants her to stay in the same emotional key forever.
It also hints at craft. To make work that actually stings or heals, you need a private room in your head where the song can arrive before the committee does. McLachlan isn’t rejecting connection; she’s protecting the conditions that make connection honest.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
McLachlan, Sarah. (2026, January 16). I don't think about what other people want from me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-about-what-other-people-want-from-me-109885/
Chicago Style
McLachlan, Sarah. "I don't think about what other people want from me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-about-what-other-people-want-from-me-109885/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't think about what other people want from me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-about-what-other-people-want-from-me-109885/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










