"I don't think anyone sets out to do something bad, it's just that it's very difficult"
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The real bite is in the evasive little “it’s just that,” a verbal shrug that smuggles in something darker: harm often comes from effort, not intention. “Very difficult” doesn’t mean difficult to be good in some abstract sense; it suggests the grinding difficulty of choosing patience over convenience, honesty over self-protection, restraint over impulse. Bad outcomes become less a personality type and more a default setting when you’re tired, cornered, chasing approval, or trying to keep a job.
As subtext, it’s also a plea for complexity in how we judge. Not absolution, but diagnosis. In an era trained to sort people into heroes and monsters at internet speed, Cole’s comment argues that the most common path to “bad” is incremental: a compromise here, a rationalization there, until the story you’re telling yourself is the only alibi you have left. The line works because it’s humane without being sentimental, and skeptical without being cynical.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cole, Gary. (2026, January 16). I don't think anyone sets out to do something bad, it's just that it's very difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-anyone-sets-out-to-do-something-bad-132725/
Chicago Style
Cole, Gary. "I don't think anyone sets out to do something bad, it's just that it's very difficult." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-anyone-sets-out-to-do-something-bad-132725/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't think anyone sets out to do something bad, it's just that it's very difficult." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-anyone-sets-out-to-do-something-bad-132725/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





