"I don't think gender is aesthetically defining for me"
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The subtext is sharper than the wording suggests: she knows gender will be used to file her into a shelf label (“female singer-songwriter”) that’s both descriptive and diminishing. By saying it’s not defining “for me,” she’s also signaling the asymmetry: other people may insist it defines her anyway. That tension is the whole point. She’s asserting authorship over her own frame, without pretending the frame doesn’t exist.
Context matters. Vega emerged from the late-70s/80s downtown scene and the singer-songwriter world where women were routinely treated as exceptions, muses, or diarists rather than formalists with craft. Her work thrives on precision, character, and narrative distance; it’s often less “here’s my heart” than “here’s a story, cleanly cut.” The line protects that aesthetic: the songs are not invitations to scrutinize her gendered self, but to listen to composition, voice, and intent. It’s a modest sentence that smuggles in a serious demand: judge the art as art, not as category.
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Vega, Suzanne. (2026, January 16). I don't think gender is aesthetically defining for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-gender-is-aesthetically-defining-for-129413/
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Vega, Suzanne. "I don't think gender is aesthetically defining for me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-gender-is-aesthetically-defining-for-129413/.
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"I don't think gender is aesthetically defining for me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-gender-is-aesthetically-defining-for-129413/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





