"I don't think I have been loved by my troops, but I think I have been respected"
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The subtext is Vietnam. Westmoreland became the face of an attritional war sold through metrics - body counts, “search and destroy,” press briefings that tried to alchemize stalemate into progress. Soldiers on the ground experienced a different arithmetic: long tours, unclear goals, hostile terrain, and a home front that was turning sour. In that environment, a commander’s popularity is not a vanity metric; it’s evidence that troops believe the strategy values their lives as more than inputs. By saying he wasn’t loved, Westmoreland hints at a gap between headquarters confidence and field-level faith.
The sentence also functions as reputational triage. “Respected” is the word you reach for when history won’t grant “admired.” It’s an attempt to salvage professionalism amid controversy: whatever you think of the war, he implies, the chain of command held. The irony is that respect can be real and still not be enough - not for morale, not for legitimacy, and not for a war that demanded persuasion as much as firepower.
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Westmoreland, William. (2026, January 16). I don't think I have been loved by my troops, but I think I have been respected. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-i-have-been-loved-by-my-troops-but-i-129781/
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"I don't think I have been loved by my troops, but I think I have been respected." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-i-have-been-loved-by-my-troops-but-i-129781/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.







