"I don't think I would have been a writer if I hadn't been a mother. I wanted to construct something that contained some of these feelings that I had, some of these discoveries or revelations"
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Her phrasing is careful. “I don’t think” reads as modesty, but it’s also a way of dodging the culture-war trap that turns any mention of motherhood into either sanctification or complaint. She’s not claiming motherhood as moral superiority; she’s claiming it as material. “Construct something” is the key verb: writing as architecture, a deliberate building of form sturdy enough to hold volatile experience. Feelings are treated as raw elements that require craft, not confession. The discoveries and “revelations” aren’t necessarily grand truths; they’re the quiet shocks that come from watching a new consciousness form, and from realizing how radically identity can be reorganized by care.
Context matters: Shields wrote in a literary climate that often undervalued domestic life as subject matter, especially when filtered through women’s work. Her intent is subtly insurgent. She’s insisting that the home is not a retreat from serious art but a pressure chamber that generates it. The subtext is permission: if you’ve been told your life is too ordinary to write about, she’s arguing that “ordinary” can be a frontier, provided you have the skill to build it into language.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shields, Carol. (2026, January 15). I don't think I would have been a writer if I hadn't been a mother. I wanted to construct something that contained some of these feelings that I had, some of these discoveries or revelations. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-i-would-have-been-a-writer-if-i-140397/
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Shields, Carol. "I don't think I would have been a writer if I hadn't been a mother. I wanted to construct something that contained some of these feelings that I had, some of these discoveries or revelations." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-i-would-have-been-a-writer-if-i-140397/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't think I would have been a writer if I hadn't been a mother. I wanted to construct something that contained some of these feelings that I had, some of these discoveries or revelations." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-i-would-have-been-a-writer-if-i-140397/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




