"I don't think I'll ever escape the fact that I don't belong anywhere in particular. I've often dreamed about going back to Nigeria, but that's a very romantic notion. It's a hideous country to go to in reality"
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Then he pivots to the seduction of origin stories. “Going back to Nigeria” is described as a dream, explicitly “romantic,” which signals that the Nigeria in his head is a screenplay version: warm, coherent, redemptive. By naming it romantic, he exposes how diaspora nostalgia can become a self-soothing narrative, a place you can visit in imagination without submitting to its realities.
The jolt comes with “hideous.” It’s deliberately harsh, almost impolite, a word that refuses the polite multicultural script where every homeland must be spoken of reverently. That bluntness can read as contempt, but it also functions as a defense against sentimentality: he won’t let the listener turn his displacement into a tasteful anecdote. Context matters here: Weaving was born in Nigeria to British parents and moved through multiple countries before settling in Australia. His “Nigeria” is less a nation than an early, half-remembered setting, and his recoil suggests the shock of revisiting a birthplace that was never truly “home,” only a starting point. The subtext is that the promised balm of origins often fails; sometimes returning doesn’t heal the fracture, it exposes it.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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Weaving, Hugo. (2026, January 16). I don't think I'll ever escape the fact that I don't belong anywhere in particular. I've often dreamed about going back to Nigeria, but that's a very romantic notion. It's a hideous country to go to in reality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-ill-ever-escape-the-fact-that-i-dont-101725/
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Weaving, Hugo. "I don't think I'll ever escape the fact that I don't belong anywhere in particular. I've often dreamed about going back to Nigeria, but that's a very romantic notion. It's a hideous country to go to in reality." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-ill-ever-escape-the-fact-that-i-dont-101725/.
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"I don't think I'll ever escape the fact that I don't belong anywhere in particular. I've often dreamed about going back to Nigeria, but that's a very romantic notion. It's a hideous country to go to in reality." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-ill-ever-escape-the-fact-that-i-dont-101725/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






