"I don't think that bravery is about skin. Bravery is about a willingness to show emotional need"
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The pivot comes with “willingness,” a word that reframes courage as choice rather than temperament. Bravery isn’t a personality trait you’re born with; it’s a decision you keep making, especially when your instincts tell you to hide. “Show emotional need” is even sharper. Need is the thing we’re trained to disguise because it risks humiliation, rejection, and dependency - all the social penalties that come with admitting you can’t self-sustain.
Coming from an actor, the subtext is almost meta: performance versus exposure. Acting can look like confidence, glamour, skin. Gere suggests the real high-wire act is dropping the polished persona and letting another person see the unmarketable parts - loneliness, fear, longing, confusion. It’s a definition of bravery that fits a late-20th/early-21st-century shift: therapy language going mainstream, masculinity being renegotiated, vulnerability becoming both a moral ideal and, at times, a public-relations aesthetic.
The intent isn’t to sentimentalize softness; it’s to redefine strength as the capacity to risk being cared for. That’s a scarier stunt than most people admit.
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Gere, Richard. (2026, January 16). I don't think that bravery is about skin. Bravery is about a willingness to show emotional need. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-bravery-is-about-skin-bravery-85832/
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Gere, Richard. "I don't think that bravery is about skin. Bravery is about a willingness to show emotional need." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-bravery-is-about-skin-bravery-85832/.
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"I don't think that bravery is about skin. Bravery is about a willingness to show emotional need." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-bravery-is-about-skin-bravery-85832/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.










