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Life's Pleasures Quote by Natalie Cole

"I don't think that my parents even imagined that I would be exposed to drugs. In those days, for some reason, it was not talked about, just like sex was not talked about"

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There is a particular sting in Natalie Cole framing drugs as something her parents never even "imagined" she would encounter. Not because the danger was rare, but because silence functioned like a family security system: if you didnt name a threat, you could pretend it couldnt enter the house. Cole pairs drugs with sex on purpose. Both are intimate, taboo, and socially managed through omission, especially in mid-century American households where respectability often meant keeping the messy parts of life off the record.

The line "for some reason" is doing heavy work. It sounds casual, even puzzled, but it carries an indictment: the reason was cultural denial. The subtext is that her parents werent simply uninformed; they were operating inside a code that treated certain realities as unspeakable, particularly around young women. That gendered hush matters. For a daughter coming of age in a world of fame, touring, and adult access, the lack of frank conversation doesnt read as innocence. It reads as a vacuum.

Cole is also quietly sketching the era's mismatch between private and public life. By the time drugs were visibly reshaping music culture, many families still clung to a pre-counterculture script in which danger belonged to "other" people. The quote lands because it refuses melodrama. Its plainspoken, almost conversational, and that understatement makes the critique sharper: when a society cant talk about what tempts or threatens its kids, it doesnt protect them. It just leaves them to learn the hard way, alone, in real time.

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Cole, Natalie. (2026, January 16). I don't think that my parents even imagined that I would be exposed to drugs. In those days, for some reason, it was not talked about, just like sex was not talked about. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-my-parents-even-imagined-that-i-127911/

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Cole, Natalie. "I don't think that my parents even imagined that I would be exposed to drugs. In those days, for some reason, it was not talked about, just like sex was not talked about." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-my-parents-even-imagined-that-i-127911/.

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"I don't think that my parents even imagined that I would be exposed to drugs. In those days, for some reason, it was not talked about, just like sex was not talked about." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-that-my-parents-even-imagined-that-i-127911/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Natalie Cole (February 6, 1950 - December 31, 2015) was a Musician from USA.

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