"I don't think we should be a model family living in a model home"
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The phrasing is deceptively domestic, and that’s the point. “Model family” and “model home” are soft, consumer-era ideals - orderly, presentable, middle-class. Dayan drags those ideals into a security-minded context to expose their hidden cost: the pressure to sanitize political reality and pretend that existential threats can be managed with good manners and symmetrical lawns. His “I don’t think” isn’t uncertainty; it’s a rhetorical shrug aimed at moralists and image-managers.
The subtext is also a warning about identity. A “model” implies an external judge - someone else’s standard. Dayan is pushing back against both internal expectations (be exemplary, be worthy, be spotless) and international ones (behave like a tidy Western democracy, speak softly, never look too hard). Coming from a military figure associated with Israel’s formative wars, the line carries the hard-earned cynicism of statecraft: nations don’t get to grow up in a showroom. They grow up in the mess, and pretending otherwise can be its own kind of strategic delusion.
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"I don't think we should be a model family living in a model home." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-think-we-should-be-a-model-family-living-160599/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








