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Success Quote by Eva Mendes

"I don't usually lose my temper, but if I get angry, it's true - I'm scary"

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There is a kind of celebrity candor that doubles as brand management, and Eva Mendes nails it here: she frames anger as both rare and real. The first clause, "I don't usually lose my temper", isn’t just reassurance; it’s a preemptive defense against the oldest trap for women in public life - the assumption that emotion equals instability. She positions herself as controlled, reasonable, the adult in the room.

Then comes the pivot: "but if I get angry". That conditional matters. It suggests a moral threshold, not moodiness. Her anger isn’t constant weather; it’s an emergency system. In that framing, the person who triggers it is implicitly the one who crossed a line. The subtext is accountability: if you meet this version of me, you probably earned it.

"I'm scary" is doing several jobs at once. It’s a playful exaggeration, the kind of self-mythologizing that makes a quote travel, but it also signals boundaries in a culture that often trains women - especially glamorous women - to be pleasing. Mendes flips the script: attractiveness doesn’t cancel consequences. The word "true" adds a wink of authenticity, as if she’s correcting a rumor while also feeding it. It’s disarming because it’s light, but effective because it’s a warning. In a celebrity ecosystem that rewards likability, she claims something sharper: the right to be feared, selectively, on her own terms.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mendes, Eva. (2026, January 15). I don't usually lose my temper, but if I get angry, it's true - I'm scary. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-usually-lose-my-temper-but-if-i-get-angry-146188/

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Mendes, Eva. "I don't usually lose my temper, but if I get angry, it's true - I'm scary." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-usually-lose-my-temper-but-if-i-get-angry-146188/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't usually lose my temper, but if I get angry, it's true - I'm scary." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-usually-lose-my-temper-but-if-i-get-angry-146188/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Eva Mendes (born March 5, 1974) is a Actress from USA.

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