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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jean Dujardin

"I don't want everyone to like me, and I don't choose who likes me. You have to give them the choice, give them the option"

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Jean Dujardin’s line lands like a quiet rebuke to the celebrity-era expectation that charisma should function as customer service. “I don’t want everyone to like me” isn’t faux humility; it’s a refusal to live as a brand engineered for maximum approval. Coming from an actor - someone literally paid to be watchable - it has an extra bite: he’s drawing a boundary between performance and personhood, between what audiences consume and what they’re allowed to claim.

The second clause, “and I don’t choose who likes me,” flips the usual power fantasy. Fame tempts you to believe you can curate admiration the way you curate an image. Dujardin treats affection as something that can’t be managed without turning it counterfeit. The subtext is almost democratic: liking has to be freely given, or it’s just manipulation dressed up as connection.

“You have to give them the choice” sounds like a moral principle, but it’s also a practical survival tactic. If you try to control how people feel, you end up trapped in constant calibration - sanding off edges, preemptively apologizing, turning every public moment into market research. By insisting on “option,” he’s protecting the messy truth that authenticity includes being disliked, misunderstood, or simply not someone’s taste. In a culture where public figures are pressured to be universally palatable, he’s defending the right to be selective about nothing at all - and to let the audience do the same.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dujardin, Jean. (n.d.). I don't want everyone to like me, and I don't choose who likes me. You have to give them the choice, give them the option. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-everyone-to-like-me-and-i-dont-choose-21791/

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Dujardin, Jean. "I don't want everyone to like me, and I don't choose who likes me. You have to give them the choice, give them the option." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-everyone-to-like-me-and-i-dont-choose-21791/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't want everyone to like me, and I don't choose who likes me. You have to give them the choice, give them the option." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-everyone-to-like-me-and-i-dont-choose-21791/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Jean Dujardin (born June 19, 1972) is a Actor from France.

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