"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well"
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The line works because it reframes regret as a spatial problem. You can imagine a life as a thin line: tidy, efficient, obedient, and secretly starved. Width implies mess: detours, attention, receptivity, the willingness to be changed by what you encounter. There’s subtext here about modern adulthood as a narrowing machine - routines, screens, career ladders, optimization culture - all excellent at producing length (days, years, milestones) while shaving off the unruly edges that make those days memorable.
Ackerman’s broader context matters. Her writing, especially in works like A Natural History of the Senses, treats perception as a moral practice: to notice is to participate. So “width” isn’t just travel-poster adventure; it’s a commitment to aliveness at the level of the senses and the mind. The sentence is also a quiet rebuke to the false virtue of mere endurance. Living longer is an achievement; living wider is a choice, and she’s daring you to make it before time turns your life into a statistic.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ackerman, Diane. (2026, January 15). I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/
Chicago Style
Ackerman, Diane. "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






