"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well"
About this Quote
The line works because it reframes regret as a spatial problem. You can imagine a life as a thin line: tidy, efficient, obedient, and secretly starved. Width implies mess: detours, attention, receptivity, the willingness to be changed by what you encounter. There’s subtext here about modern adulthood as a narrowing machine - routines, screens, career ladders, optimization culture - all excellent at producing length (days, years, milestones) while shaving off the unruly edges that make those days memorable.
Ackerman’s broader context matters. Her writing, especially in works like A Natural History of the Senses, treats perception as a moral practice: to notice is to participate. So “width” isn’t just travel-poster adventure; it’s a commitment to aliveness at the level of the senses and the mind. The sentence is also a quiet rebuke to the false virtue of mere endurance. Living longer is an achievement; living wider is a choice, and she’s daring you to make it before time turns your life into a statistic.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: St. Petersburg Times: Review of Alice Munro's Open Secrets (Diane Ackerman, 1994)
Evidence: Asked at age 37 about her diverse career as poet, teacher, cowhand and pilot, Diane Ackerman said, "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find I have lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." (Page 1 (as reproduced in the PDF)). This is the earliest primary-like, attributable publication I could verify online: a St. Petersburg Times piece dated Oct. 9, 1994, which reports Ackerman saying the line (i.e., it is presented as a direct quotation of her, not a later quote-compilation). However, the article itself indicates she said it when she was 37; since Ackerman was born in 1948, that would place the original utterance around 1985 (depending on the month), implying an earlier interview/event exists that has not been located/verified in this search. I did not find a verifiable instance of the quote in Ackerman's own books, essays, or transcripts earlier than 1994 via publicly accessible primary texts in this pass. Other candidates (1) Sunbeams (Sy Safransky, 1990) compilation96.9% ... I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it . I want to have lived the ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ackerman, Diane. (2026, March 6). I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/
Chicago Style
Ackerman, Diane. "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes. March 6, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes, 6 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.






