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Life & Wisdom Quote by Diane Ackerman

"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well"

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Ackerman takes the most basic measure of a life - its duration - and treats it like an accusation. “The length of it” is what the calendar gives you by default, the passive fact of surviving. “The width of it” is her insurgent unit of meaning: sensory breadth, curiosity, risk, intimacy, the deliberate cultivation of experience. It’s a poet’s move to convert geometry into ethics. She makes the stakes legible without preaching, because nobody wants to be told to “live more” - they want to feel the dread of having lived too narrowly.

The line works because it reframes regret as a spatial problem. You can imagine a life as a thin line: tidy, efficient, obedient, and secretly starved. Width implies mess: detours, attention, receptivity, the willingness to be changed by what you encounter. There’s subtext here about modern adulthood as a narrowing machine - routines, screens, career ladders, optimization culture - all excellent at producing length (days, years, milestones) while shaving off the unruly edges that make those days memorable.

Ackerman’s broader context matters. Her writing, especially in works like A Natural History of the Senses, treats perception as a moral practice: to notice is to participate. So “width” isn’t just travel-poster adventure; it’s a commitment to aliveness at the level of the senses and the mind. The sentence is also a quiet rebuke to the false virtue of mere endurance. Living longer is an achievement; living wider is a choice, and she’s daring you to make it before time turns your life into a statistic.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ackerman, Diane. (2026, January 15). I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/

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Ackerman, Diane. "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/.

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"I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-get-to-the-end-of-my-life-and-find-118398/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Diane Ackerman (born October 7, 1948) is a Poet from USA.

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