"I don't want you to take your hat off to me; I only want you to be proud of me"
About this Quote
The second half reroutes the emotion to something sturdier: I only want you to be proud of me. Pride is communal, not submissive. It imagines a relationship closer to family than fandom, where success reflects back on the people who raised you, supported you, sang along, and claimed you. For an artist like Proeski, whose public identity was deeply tied to Balkan national and regional belonging, that distinction matters. He isn’t trying to be a distant icon; he’s trying to be “our” guy, worthy of being named at the dinner table, not worshipped on a pedestal.
The subtext is also self-protective. Reverence is fickle; it turns to backlash the moment an idol slips. Pride, by contrast, implies character, consistency, earned trust. Proeski frames his achievement as responsibility: judge me not by glamour, but by whether I’ve honored where I come from and how I’ve carried myself.
It works because it’s emotionally specific without being needy. He asks for the one kind of recognition that can’t be bought: not applause, but esteem.
Quote Details
| Topic | Pride |
|---|---|
| Source | [translated] Quote attributed to Toše Proeski in regional press profiles/tributes (e.g., birthday remembrance articles dated 25 Jan 2023 and 25 Jan 2024). Original phrasing appears in BCMS; translated here to English. |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Proeski, Toše. (2026, February 15). I don't want you to take your hat off to me; I only want you to be proud of me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-you-to-take-your-hat-off-to-me-i-only-185448/
Chicago Style
Proeski, Toše. "I don't want you to take your hat off to me; I only want you to be proud of me." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-you-to-take-your-hat-off-to-me-i-only-185448/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't want you to take your hat off to me; I only want you to be proud of me." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-you-to-take-your-hat-off-to-me-i-only-185448/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.








