"I embrace my rival, but only to strangle him"
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Racine’s theater is built on this kind of double bind. In the absolutist world he dramatizes, open aggression is often impossible; power moves through etiquette, family ties, and the soft constraints of reputation. You don’t always destroy an enemy by confronting him. You destroy him by appearing to forgive him, by making violence look like affection’s accidental overflow. The intent is chillingly strategic: the speaker wants dominance without mess, a kill carried out in the language of peace.
Subtextually, the quote takes aim at the moral theater of elites, where virtue can be staged as easily as grief or love. It also sketches a psychology Racine understood well: hatred that needs contact, that can’t resist the lure of closeness. The rival isn’t merely an obstacle; he’s an obsession.
Historically, it fits a 17th-century culture of ceremony and surveillance, where outward harmony was a political technology. Racine compresses that world into a single motion: arms opening, then tightening.
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Racine, Jean. (2026, January 15). I embrace my rival, but only to strangle him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-embrace-my-rival-but-only-to-strangle-him-154631/
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"I embrace my rival, but only to strangle him." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-embrace-my-rival-but-only-to-strangle-him-154631/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











