"I enjoy those small chats you have when people come up and talk to you about your work. It only involves a few seconds of effort to be nice to those people, and I am very grateful for the kind words that people have taken the trouble to express to me in person"
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The intent reads as both gratitude and boundary-setting. By praising brief encounters, she validates the audience's impulse to connect while implicitly resisting the expectation of limitless availability. It's a subtle contract: you can approach; I will meet you with decency; the exchange stays human-sized. That matters because so much of fame turns people into symbols - a face that stands in for a franchise, a meme, a moodboard. Bonham Carter reasserts personhood on both sides. The fan isn't a faceless demand; she's "those people" who "have taken the trouble" to speak out loud. She isn't an untouchable icon; she's someone capable of choosing to be kind.
Contextually, this lands as an anti-diva statement from an actor whose persona could easily be read as eccentric royalty. Instead of leaning into spectacle, she points to the plainest form of cultural reciprocity: if someone carried your work into their life, you can carry a moment of their gratitude without acting like it's a burden.
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| Topic | Gratitude |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carter, Helena Bonham. (n.d.). I enjoy those small chats you have when people come up and talk to you about your work. It only involves a few seconds of effort to be nice to those people, and I am very grateful for the kind words that people have taken the trouble to express to me in person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enjoy-those-small-chats-you-have-when-people-61791/
Chicago Style
Carter, Helena Bonham. "I enjoy those small chats you have when people come up and talk to you about your work. It only involves a few seconds of effort to be nice to those people, and I am very grateful for the kind words that people have taken the trouble to express to me in person." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enjoy-those-small-chats-you-have-when-people-61791/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I enjoy those small chats you have when people come up and talk to you about your work. It only involves a few seconds of effort to be nice to those people, and I am very grateful for the kind words that people have taken the trouble to express to me in person." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enjoy-those-small-chats-you-have-when-people-61791/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.


