"I enlisted when I was a boy. The Navy looked after me like my mother. It fed me, took care of me and gave me wonderful opportunities"
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The choice of verbs is telling: "looked after", "fed", "took care of me". Those are infant-to-parent words, not action-hero words. Curtis, a Hollywood actor whose public image was built on charm and swagger, is quietly puncturing the macho mythology we often attach to enlistment. He’s not selling discipline or glory; he’s describing caretaking. It’s an unusually candid way to admit vulnerability without ever saying the word.
The context matters, too. Curtis came of age during World War II, when enlistment was both a national norm and, for many working-class boys, a rare escalator. Calling the opportunities "wonderful" isn’t just sentimental; it’s a nod to upward mobility packaged as service. The subtext is a bargain America has long offered: give the state your youth, and it will give you a future. Curtis’s line lands because it captures that bargain in intimate, domestic terms - the Navy as mother, and the boy who needed one.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Curtis, Tony. (2026, January 16). I enlisted when I was a boy. The Navy looked after me like my mother. It fed me, took care of me and gave me wonderful opportunities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enlisted-when-i-was-a-boy-the-navy-looked-after-129436/
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Curtis, Tony. "I enlisted when I was a boy. The Navy looked after me like my mother. It fed me, took care of me and gave me wonderful opportunities." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enlisted-when-i-was-a-boy-the-navy-looked-after-129436/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I enlisted when I was a boy. The Navy looked after me like my mother. It fed me, took care of me and gave me wonderful opportunities." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-enlisted-when-i-was-a-boy-the-navy-looked-after-129436/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

