"I feel like I'm always having to justify why I haven't kept in touch with anyone from the old days in Stoke-on-Trent, but I'm like that with anybody. I don't let anybody in. I just rely on myself"
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There is a particular kind of celebrity confession that sounds like an apology but is really a boundary, and Robbie Williams nails it here. He starts with the social crime: not keeping in touch with “the old days in Stoke-on-Trent.” That detail matters. Stoke isn’t just a hometown; it’s a marker of class, roots, and the story the British pop machine loves to sell back to itself: lad makes good, lad stays loyal. The pressure isn’t only personal, it’s narrative. He’s being audited for authenticity.
Then he swerves. “But I’m like that with anybody.” The move is strategic: he refuses the hometown-guilt frame and reframes it as temperament, almost a diagnosis. The repetition of “anybody” widens the radius of distance until it’s not about Stoke at all, it’s about intimacy. “I don’t let anybody in” is blunt enough to sound like strength, sad enough to read as defense. It’s the language of self-protection from someone who’s learned that closeness can be transactional when you’re famous, and messy when you’re not.
The final line, “I just rely on myself,” lands like a mantra he’s had to practice. It’s independence as coping mechanism, not swagger. Subtext: fame didn’t cause the walls, but it made them harder to take down - and harder to explain without sounding ungrateful.
Then he swerves. “But I’m like that with anybody.” The move is strategic: he refuses the hometown-guilt frame and reframes it as temperament, almost a diagnosis. The repetition of “anybody” widens the radius of distance until it’s not about Stoke at all, it’s about intimacy. “I don’t let anybody in” is blunt enough to sound like strength, sad enough to read as defense. It’s the language of self-protection from someone who’s learned that closeness can be transactional when you’re famous, and messy when you’re not.
The final line, “I just rely on myself,” lands like a mantra he’s had to practice. It’s independence as coping mechanism, not swagger. Subtext: fame didn’t cause the walls, but it made them harder to take down - and harder to explain without sounding ungrateful.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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