"I feel like I've come out of this grown up, maybe because I live through the character vicariously and she grows up so much during the course of this story"
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The subtext is about legitimacy and authorship. Young actresses are routinely treated like products of a machine - cast, styled, managed - while being asked to project adult depth on camera. By saying she "came out of this grown up", Rossum subtly flips that script: the work did something to her, not just for her. It’s a bid for seriousness without grandstanding.
Context matters: this is the language of a performer navigating the transition from being perceived as a "young talent" to being taken as an adult artist. Notice the hedge words - "I feel like", "maybe because" - which read less like uncertainty than self-protection. She’s careful not to sound arrogant, careful not to claim trauma or transformation she can’t substantiate. The line works because it captures a common, rarely admitted truth of screen culture: we don’t just watch coming-of-age stories; sometimes the people making them use them to come of age, too.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rossum, Emmy. (n.d.). I feel like I've come out of this grown up, maybe because I live through the character vicariously and she grows up so much during the course of this story. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-come-out-of-this-grown-up-maybe-45777/
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Rossum, Emmy. "I feel like I've come out of this grown up, maybe because I live through the character vicariously and she grows up so much during the course of this story." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-come-out-of-this-grown-up-maybe-45777/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I feel like I've come out of this grown up, maybe because I live through the character vicariously and she grows up so much during the course of this story." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-come-out-of-this-grown-up-maybe-45777/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







