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Daily Inspiration Quote by Sam Shepard

"I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself"

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Shepard’s genius was always in making American space feel too big to live in. This confession lands like one of his stage directions: spare, conversational, and quietly catastrophic. “Home” isn’t a cozy noun here; it’s a missing architecture. He doesn’t dramatize homelessness as poverty or exile so much as an existential misplacement inside the very country that supposedly guarantees belonging. The knife twist is in the phrasing “related to the country” - not “from,” not “of,” but kin to it, as if America is a family you can’t quite stop loving even when it keeps failing you.

The subtext is Shepard’s signature American paradox: the nation sells freedom as self-invention, yet the self still wants a fixed point to push against. “Where I fit in” reads less like a social anxiety than a geographic one, which is exactly the Shepard move: identity becomes landscape, and landscape becomes an argument. His characters roam motels, deserts, and broken ranch houses not because they’re adventurous, but because they’re searching for a room that will finally hold their contradictions.

That “nostalgia for a place” is doing double duty. It’s longing, yes, but also suspicion: the place might not exist, or it existed only as a story we were told about ourselves. “Reckon with yourself” is frontier vocabulary turned inward - the old American reckoning (with land, with violence, with myth) reframed as an internal audit. Shepard isn’t asking for comfort. He’s describing the ache of wanting a home that can bear the truth.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shepard, Sam. (2026, January 15). I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/

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Shepard, Sam. "I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Sam Shepard

Sam Shepard (November 5, 1943 - July 27, 2017) was a Playwright from USA.

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