"I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself"
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The subtext is Shepard’s signature American paradox: the nation sells freedom as self-invention, yet the self still wants a fixed point to push against. “Where I fit in” reads less like a social anxiety than a geographic one, which is exactly the Shepard move: identity becomes landscape, and landscape becomes an argument. His characters roam motels, deserts, and broken ranch houses not because they’re adventurous, but because they’re searching for a room that will finally hold their contradictions.
That “nostalgia for a place” is doing double duty. It’s longing, yes, but also suspicion: the place might not exist, or it existed only as a story we were told about ourselves. “Reckon with yourself” is frontier vocabulary turned inward - the old American reckoning (with land, with violence, with myth) reframed as an internal audit. Shepard isn’t asking for comfort. He’s describing the ache of wanting a home that can bear the truth.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shepard, Sam. (2026, January 15). I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/
Chicago Style
Shepard, Sam. "I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I feel like I've never had a home, you know? I feel related to the country, to this country, and yet I don't know exactly where I fit in... There's always this kind of nostalgia for a place, a place where you can reckon with yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-like-ive-never-had-a-home-you-know-i-feel-137311/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.



