"I feel my family's needs are a priority. I'm not comfortable with the idea of serving the many and ignoring my family"
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The intent is straightforward self-protection, but the subtext is sharper: the culture’s definition of virtue often depends on who gets to outsource care. When public life demands total availability, it tends to assume someone else is handling the private sphere. For women especially, the “ignore my family” clause exposes the trap: you’re either selfish for prioritizing home or selfish for not. By saying she’s “not comfortable,” Sarandon refuses the heroic narrative of burnout. She makes opting out sound like sanity, not failure.
Context matters because Sarandon isn’t a politician or a CEO; she’s a celebrity who’s been publicly political. That gives the quote extra friction: it reads as a boundary set by someone expected to be endlessly outspoken, endlessly present, endlessly useful to a cause. It’s a reminder that even the most visible advocates are still embedded in the messy, limited resource of attention. The line works because it demystifies “the many” and makes “my family” feel like the only constituency that can’t be replaced.
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| Topic | Family |
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Sarandon, Susan. (n.d.). I feel my family's needs are a priority. I'm not comfortable with the idea of serving the many and ignoring my family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-my-familys-needs-are-a-priority-im-not-95920/
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Sarandon, Susan. "I feel my family's needs are a priority. I'm not comfortable with the idea of serving the many and ignoring my family." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-my-familys-needs-are-a-priority-im-not-95920/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I feel my family's needs are a priority. I'm not comfortable with the idea of serving the many and ignoring my family." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-my-familys-needs-are-a-priority-im-not-95920/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







