"I feel sure that no girl would go to the altar if she knew all"
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The intent reads less like romantic disillusionment than a warning delivered in code. In a culture that sold marriage as moral destiny for women, Victoria hints at the bait-and-switch: the altar as the ceremonial gateway to work. The phrase “go to the altar” matters. It’s not “get married,” but a public submission to a religious and social script, with a girl as the one who “goes,” like a sacrifice approaching the fire.
Context sharpens the bite. Victoria’s own marriage to Prince Albert was unusually affectionate by royal standards, yet even a “good” marriage in the 19th century came with relentless pregnancy, limited legal autonomy, and the expectation that a wife’s interior life be managed for her. Coming from a queen - a woman with sovereign power on paper - the line is even more cutting: if she, with crowns and courtiers, can see marriage as a knowledge trap, what does that say about everyone else?
The subtext is almost feminist, if not quite liberatory: women are kept innocent so the system can keep running. The quiet scandal is that she’s describing ignorance as policy.
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