"I feel very comfortable with the way I look, and I feel very comfortable with the kind of confusion that it creates in people's minds"
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The phrasing matters. He repeats “very comfortable” twice, turning what could be defensive into something almost luxurious. Comfort becomes a form of power: the ability to stand still while everyone else scrambles to resolve the “problem” of your presentation. That flips the usual script, where the visibly nonconforming person is cast as anxious and the mainstream as calm. Molko relocates the discomfort where it belongs - in the audience.
Contextually, this is late-90s/early-2000s rock as a battleground for identity, when androgyny wasn’t a marketing slogan so much as a dare. Placebo’s aesthetic and Molko’s public persona played with glam lineage (Bowie, Bolan) but arrived in an era more addicted to authenticity talk than theatricality. The subtext is: your confusion is not my crisis. It’s also a neat critique of how “normal” operates - as a demand for instant comprehension. Molko refuses to translate himself for ease of consumption, and that refusal is the point: ambiguity as artistry, and as boundary.
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Molko, Brian. (2026, January 17). I feel very comfortable with the way I look, and I feel very comfortable with the kind of confusion that it creates in people's minds. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-very-comfortable-with-the-way-i-look-and-i-42882/
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Molko, Brian. "I feel very comfortable with the way I look, and I feel very comfortable with the kind of confusion that it creates in people's minds." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-very-comfortable-with-the-way-i-look-and-i-42882/.
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"I feel very comfortable with the way I look, and I feel very comfortable with the kind of confusion that it creates in people's minds." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-feel-very-comfortable-with-the-way-i-look-and-i-42882/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







