"I felt for a long time that this is what I want to do so I'm happy at this point to just take my time and work on projects that I feel strongly about, and the rest of the time just live my life"
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The subtext is about control: creative, personal, and temporal. Actors are routinely asked to perform gratitude for nonstop work, as if constant production is proof of worth. Connelly sidesteps that bargain. “Projects that I feel strongly about” is less a humble preference than an assertion of taste and standards; it positions her as an author of her trajectory, not merely a participant. It also hints at hard-earned clarity: she “felt for a long time” suggests a career long enough to test the fantasy against reality, and to decide which parts of the machine are optional.
The most telling phrase is “live my life,” a deceptively simple boundary in a profession that eats weekends, bodies, privacy, and sometimes identity. Read against Hollywood’s particular pressures on women to stay perpetually market-ready, the statement becomes a cultural critique in plain language. She’s articulating a post-hustle ethos: work can be meaningful without being totalizing, and ambition can coexist with an ordinary, fiercely protected human pace.
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Connelly, Jennifer. (n.d.). I felt for a long time that this is what I want to do so I'm happy at this point to just take my time and work on projects that I feel strongly about, and the rest of the time just live my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-for-a-long-time-that-this-is-what-i-want-56470/
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Connelly, Jennifer. "I felt for a long time that this is what I want to do so I'm happy at this point to just take my time and work on projects that I feel strongly about, and the rest of the time just live my life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-for-a-long-time-that-this-is-what-i-want-56470/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I felt for a long time that this is what I want to do so I'm happy at this point to just take my time and work on projects that I feel strongly about, and the rest of the time just live my life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-for-a-long-time-that-this-is-what-i-want-56470/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.



