"I felt I had to share Idaho with my friend from New York because he'd shared New York with me, so I was going to share the beauty of nature with a man who went to museums and clubs late at night. But there was nothing to do where I lived at night"
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That last sentence lands like a small shrug that hides a bigger ache. “But there was nothing to do where I lived at night” punctures the earlier idealism about “the beauty of nature.” The subtext is that nature, however gorgeous, can also be isolating when the sun goes down. Her friend’s nightlife isn’t framed as shallow; it’s framed as infrastructure - a social system that gives you options, noise, anonymity, a way to not be alone with your thoughts. Idaho’s beauty becomes, by contrast, a kind of imposed stillness.
The line also carries a cultural moment: a celebrity-adjacent young woman describing the gap between metropolitan sophistication and rural quiet without romanticizing either. She’s acknowledging that “beauty” doesn’t automatically equal belonging. Museums and clubs aren’t just entertainment; they’re a language. Idaho, at night, doesn’t speak it - and she’s left trying to host someone in a place that can’t meet him halfway.
Quote Details
| Topic | Long-Distance Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hemingway, Mariel. (2026, January 16). I felt I had to share Idaho with my friend from New York because he'd shared New York with me, so I was going to share the beauty of nature with a man who went to museums and clubs late at night. But there was nothing to do where I lived at night. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-i-had-to-share-idaho-with-my-friend-from-100172/
Chicago Style
Hemingway, Mariel. "I felt I had to share Idaho with my friend from New York because he'd shared New York with me, so I was going to share the beauty of nature with a man who went to museums and clubs late at night. But there was nothing to do where I lived at night." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-i-had-to-share-idaho-with-my-friend-from-100172/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I felt I had to share Idaho with my friend from New York because he'd shared New York with me, so I was going to share the beauty of nature with a man who went to museums and clubs late at night. But there was nothing to do where I lived at night." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-i-had-to-share-idaho-with-my-friend-from-100172/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

