"I felt like they only cared about what I could do for them, not what they could do for me"
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McCorvey, forever branded as "Jane Roe" from Roe v. Wade, lived a version of fame where visibility doesn't equal agency. This is celebrity as extraction: the person becomes a symbol, and the symbol becomes more valuable than the human who has to live with it. The second half - "not what they could do for me" - isn't just a demand for reciprocity; it's a reminder that movements often preach dignity while running on triage. Individuals are indispensable for the headline and disposable in the aftermath.
The quote's power is how it reframes ideological conflict as interpersonal economics. It asks an awkward question: when a cause needs a protagonist, does it also owe that protagonist care, protection, and honesty? McCorvey's life, marked by shifting affiliations and constant public reinterpretation, makes the subtext sharper: being at the center of history can still mean being left out of your own story.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McCorvey, Norma. (2026, January 16). I felt like they only cared about what I could do for them, not what they could do for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-like-they-only-cared-about-what-i-could-do-101094/
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McCorvey, Norma. "I felt like they only cared about what I could do for them, not what they could do for me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-like-they-only-cared-about-what-i-could-do-101094/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I felt like they only cared about what I could do for them, not what they could do for me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-felt-like-they-only-cared-about-what-i-could-do-101094/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


