"I figured out it was a social thing, what women were allowed to do. At a very young age, I decided I was not going to follow women's rules"
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The second sentence tightens the screw. “At a very young age” isn’t just autobiography; it’s a quiet indictment. If a kid can see the boundaries that clearly, the boundaries are not subtle, and the adults enforcing them don’t get to plead ignorance. Then she lands on “women’s rules,” a deliberately provocative simplification. She’s not claiming women authored patriarchy; she’s naming the narrow behavioral box girls are trained to police in themselves and each other: be agreeable, be pretty, don’t be loud, don’t want too much.
Context gives it extra voltage. Jett came up through the 1970s rock ecosystem where credibility was coded male and female musicians were treated as novelty acts or pinups. Her career has been a sustained refusal of those terms: leather instead of lace, riffs instead of coyness, a voice that doesn’t ask permission. The intent isn’t to “inspire” in the abstract; it’s to assert agency as a practice. The subtext is a dare: if the rules are social, your compliance is optional.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jett, Joan. (2026, January 17). I figured out it was a social thing, what women were allowed to do. At a very young age, I decided I was not going to follow women's rules. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-figured-out-it-was-a-social-thing-what-women-70593/
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Jett, Joan. "I figured out it was a social thing, what women were allowed to do. At a very young age, I decided I was not going to follow women's rules." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-figured-out-it-was-a-social-thing-what-women-70593/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I figured out it was a social thing, what women were allowed to do. At a very young age, I decided I was not going to follow women's rules." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-figured-out-it-was-a-social-thing-what-women-70593/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







