"I finally said, 'I can't live being carried by this wake'"
About this Quote
The line’s power is its double meaning. A wake is also a vigil for the dead, and that shadow hangs over the sentence: living inside a story that’s already been declared over, lingering in the aftermath. Maples doesn’t say "spotlight" or "fame" or even "marriage". She chooses the residue, the aftershock. That’s the subtext of a woman trying to step out of a narrative where she’s less protagonist than evidence of someone else’s passage.
Context matters because Maples’s public identity has long been entangled with a larger, louder brand. In that ecosystem, even your independence can be read as a subplot. This quote pushes back against that gravitational pull without naming it, which is exactly why it works: it’s both confession and boundary. "I finally said" is the quiet tell of delayed self-permission, a moment when endurance stops looking like strength and starts looking like self-erasure.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Maples, Marla. (2026, February 17). I finally said, 'I can't live being carried by this wake'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-finally-said-i-cant-live-being-carried-by-this-95305/
Chicago Style
Maples, Marla. "I finally said, 'I can't live being carried by this wake'." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-finally-said-i-cant-live-being-carried-by-this-95305/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I finally said, 'I can't live being carried by this wake'." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-finally-said-i-cant-live-being-carried-by-this-95305/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









