"I find it hard to imagine how someone listens to my stuff, or views what I do, or me, or anything"
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The intent feels less like self-deprecation than self-protection. For an artist whose output is often surreal, collage-like, and deliberately uncategorizable, being “hard to imagine” is both anxiety and strategy. She’s describing dissociation as a survival skill: if you can’t picture the listener, you don’t have to negotiate with them. You get to keep making the strange thing, intact.
The subtext is also about gendered exposure. Women in music are routinely asked to be legible - to package the self alongside the sound. Dax’s phrasing refuses that bargain. “Me” is placed on the same shelf as “my stuff,” an object among objects, then promptly questioned. In an era that increasingly treats art as content and artists as brand, her disbelief reads like quiet resistance: if she can’t imagine being consumed, she’s less likely to let the consumption define her.
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| Topic | Music |
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Dax, Danielle. (2026, January 16). I find it hard to imagine how someone listens to my stuff, or views what I do, or me, or anything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-it-hard-to-imagine-how-someone-listens-to-121815/
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"I find it hard to imagine how someone listens to my stuff, or views what I do, or me, or anything." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-it-hard-to-imagine-how-someone-listens-to-121815/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.







