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Parenting & Family Quote by Robin Gibb

"I find it very, very hard. He was part of the fabric of my life. We were kids together, and teenagers. We spent the whole of our lives with each other because of our music"

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Grief here doesn’t arrive as melodrama; it lands as a practical problem: “I find it very, very hard.” Robin Gibb reaches for plain speech because the loss he’s describing isn’t a single event so much as a structural collapse. “He was part of the fabric of my life” is doing heavy lifting: fabric implies something woven in over time, not chosen day to day. You don’t notice it until it tears, and then everything pulls.

The subtext is that this isn’t only about missing a person; it’s about losing a shared timeline. “We were kids together, and teenagers” compresses decades into a few beats, as if memory itself has become a quick-cut montage. It’s also a reminder that the Bee Gees weren’t just collaborators. Their bond predates fame, contracts, and the machinery of the music industry. That matters because celebrity grief is often treated as public performance. Gibb’s phrasing insists on something more intimate: siblinghood that existed before the audience did.

Then comes the quiet twist: “because of our music.” He frames music not as a side effect of their closeness but as the reason they stayed bound “the whole of our lives.” The implication is brutal: the same art that gave them purpose also locked their lives together, making separation unthinkable. Contextually, it reads like a survivor trying to describe what it means when a lifelong harmony partner goes silent - not just the end of a relationship, but the end of the sound that helped define who you were.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gibb, Robin. (2026, January 16). I find it very, very hard. He was part of the fabric of my life. We were kids together, and teenagers. We spent the whole of our lives with each other because of our music. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-it-very-very-hard-he-was-part-of-the-118028/

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Gibb, Robin. "I find it very, very hard. He was part of the fabric of my life. We were kids together, and teenagers. We spent the whole of our lives with each other because of our music." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-it-very-very-hard-he-was-part-of-the-118028/.

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"I find it very, very hard. He was part of the fabric of my life. We were kids together, and teenagers. We spent the whole of our lives with each other because of our music." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-it-very-very-hard-he-was-part-of-the-118028/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.

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Robin Gibb

Robin Gibb (born December 22, 1949) is a Musician from England.

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