"I find Jesus my confidant and companion, brother and savior; our relationship is intimate, vulnerable, demanding yet comfortable and reassuring"
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The pivot - "demanding yet comfortable and reassuring" - acknowledges what modern spiritual writing often dodges: intimacy costs something. Boyd refuses the sugary version of Jesus-as-therapist. This companionship asks for change, not just consolation, but it also offers a steadiness that doesn’t depend on the believer’s performance. That tension is the point. He’s describing a faith that holds both discipline and tenderness without pretending they cancel each other out.
Context matters: Boyd emerged as a prominent Episcopal voice in a century when authority was fraying, psychology was reshaping how people spoke about the self, and religious language had to compete with skepticism and trauma. His intent is almost strategic: to make Christian commitment credible by framing it in the vocabulary of honest attachment rather than institutional certainty.
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Boyd, Malcolm. (n.d.). I find Jesus my confidant and companion, brother and savior; our relationship is intimate, vulnerable, demanding yet comfortable and reassuring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-jesus-my-confidant-and-companion-brother-92311/
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Boyd, Malcolm. "I find Jesus my confidant and companion, brother and savior; our relationship is intimate, vulnerable, demanding yet comfortable and reassuring." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-jesus-my-confidant-and-companion-brother-92311/.
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"I find Jesus my confidant and companion, brother and savior; our relationship is intimate, vulnerable, demanding yet comfortable and reassuring." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-find-jesus-my-confidant-and-companion-brother-92311/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









