"I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity"
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Erving’s line lands like a veteran’s locker-room correction to a culture that confuses being seen with being valued. “Firmly believe” signals that this isn’t a motivational poster; it’s a conclusion earned in public, where applause is loud, fickle, and often detached from substance. Popularity is the scoreboard of attention. Respect is the scoreboard of peers, opponents, coaches, and the people who actually understand what it costs to perform.
The subtext is a quiet warning about the trap of being likable on demand. Popularity asks you to feed the crowd: highlight plays, quotable charm, the right brand of humility. Respect asks for something harder and less glamorous: consistency, accountability, and a competitive integrity that doesn’t bend just because the room wants a different story. When Erving says respect is “greater,” he’s ranking currencies. One spends quickly; the other compounds.
Context matters: Erving became “Dr. J” in an era when NBA stardom was turning into mass-media mythology, and when Black athletes were increasingly made into symbols as much as players. In that world, popularity can be a kind of performance contract: be entertaining, be palatable, stay marketable. Respect is what survives the marketing cycle. It’s what remains when the dunk reels fade and the conversation shifts from image to legacy.
The line also doubles as a philosophy of leadership. You can win a room with charisma; you keep it with standards. Erving is arguing for the long game: be judged by the people who know the work, not the people passing through.
The subtext is a quiet warning about the trap of being likable on demand. Popularity asks you to feed the crowd: highlight plays, quotable charm, the right brand of humility. Respect asks for something harder and less glamorous: consistency, accountability, and a competitive integrity that doesn’t bend just because the room wants a different story. When Erving says respect is “greater,” he’s ranking currencies. One spends quickly; the other compounds.
Context matters: Erving became “Dr. J” in an era when NBA stardom was turning into mass-media mythology, and when Black athletes were increasingly made into symbols as much as players. In that world, popularity can be a kind of performance contract: be entertaining, be palatable, stay marketable. Respect is what survives the marketing cycle. It’s what remains when the dunk reels fade and the conversation shifts from image to legacy.
The line also doubles as a philosophy of leadership. You can win a room with charisma; you keep it with standards. Erving is arguing for the long game: be judged by the people who know the work, not the people passing through.
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