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Daily Inspiration Quote by Alan Alda

"I found I wasn't asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something. I would box them into a corner with a badly formed question, and they didn't know how to get out of it. Now, I let them take me through it step by step, and I listen"

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Alda is confessing to a very actorly sin: playing the scene in his head before his scene partner has even opened their mouth. The “badly formed question” isn’t just clumsy phrasing; it’s a power move disguised as curiosity. When you “box them into a corner,” you’re not interviewing, you’re cross-examining - narrowing someone’s reality until it fits your prewritten arc. The subtext is humility, but not the performative kind. He’s admitting that his supposed intelligence was really an appetite for control.

What makes the quote work is how physical the language is. “Box them” evokes a ring, a trap, a fixed outcome. “Step by step” switches the geometry: from cornering to walking alongside. It’s a small rhetorical pivot that signals a big ethical one. He’s moving from extraction to accompaniment, from trying to sound sharp to trying to be accurate.

The cultural context matters. Alda isn’t just any actor; he became a public-facing translator between worlds, especially through his work popularizing science communication. That terrain punishes certainty. Scientists and experts don’t need a host to complete their sentences; they need room to build a chain of reasoning. Alda’s line is a critique of media habits that reward “gotcha” framing and speed. Listening here isn’t passive. It’s a craft choice: surrendering the punchline to earn the truth.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Alda, Alan. (2026, January 16). I found I wasn't asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something. I would box them into a corner with a badly formed question, and they didn't know how to get out of it. Now, I let them take me through it step by step, and I listen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-found-i-wasnt-asking-good-enough-questions-122411/

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Alda, Alan. "I found I wasn't asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something. I would box them into a corner with a badly formed question, and they didn't know how to get out of it. Now, I let them take me through it step by step, and I listen." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-found-i-wasnt-asking-good-enough-questions-122411/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I found I wasn't asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something. I would box them into a corner with a badly formed question, and they didn't know how to get out of it. Now, I let them take me through it step by step, and I listen." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-found-i-wasnt-asking-good-enough-questions-122411/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alan Alda (born January 28, 1936) is a Actor from USA.

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