"I get whatever placidity I have from my father. But my mother taught me how to take it on the chin"
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Then she tilts the whole thing with “take it on the chin,” a phrase from boxing, not boudoirs. The subtext is grit without melodrama: resilience learned, practiced, and delivered with a straight face. By assigning that toughness to her mother, Shearer smuggles in a matrilineal education that doesn’t fit the era’s preferred narrative of the passive starlet shaped by men (producers, directors, publicists). It’s also an actress’s way of talking about the job without saying the job: the audits of your face, the gossip columns, the moral policing, the constant demand to be composed while being consumed.
The intent feels twofold: a tribute that’s also a quiet corrective. Shearer acknowledges softness, but refuses to let it be mistaken for fragility. The line works because it’s modest while unmistakably worldly - a polished admission that endurance is not a personality trait. It’s training.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shearer, Norma. (n.d.). I get whatever placidity I have from my father. But my mother taught me how to take it on the chin. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-get-whatever-placidity-i-have-from-my-father-126154/
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Shearer, Norma. "I get whatever placidity I have from my father. But my mother taught me how to take it on the chin." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-get-whatever-placidity-i-have-from-my-father-126154/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I get whatever placidity I have from my father. But my mother taught me how to take it on the chin." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-get-whatever-placidity-i-have-from-my-father-126154/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








