"I got through my teen years by being a bit of a clown"
About this Quote
The “clown” isn’t just someone funny; it’s a role, a performance with rules. It implies control in a life stage defined by having very little. If you can make the room laugh, you can steer attention away from whatever you don’t want examined: insecurity, class anxiety, family turbulence, a body changing in public. For a future actress, that reads less like a quirky personality trait and more like early training - learning how to read an audience, manage nerves, and turn vulnerability into a usable effect.
Cilento’s line also smuggles in a gendered subtext. For young women, being “the clown” can be a way to claim space without being punished for ambition: you’re not demanding attention, you’re “just joking.” The charm of the quote is how it lets the mask show without fully taking it off. It’s survival, yes - but also craft.
Quote Details
| Topic | Youth |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cilento, Diane. (2026, January 16). I got through my teen years by being a bit of a clown. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-through-my-teen-years-by-being-a-bit-of-a-128984/
Chicago Style
Cilento, Diane. "I got through my teen years by being a bit of a clown." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-through-my-teen-years-by-being-a-bit-of-a-128984/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I got through my teen years by being a bit of a clown." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-through-my-teen-years-by-being-a-bit-of-a-128984/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





