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"I got to know Sugar Ray, but I certainly would not say we were good friends"

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Name-dropping is supposed to buy you intimacy; Dick Schaap uses it to advertise distance. "I got to know Sugar Ray" sounds like the opening line of a glamorous anecdote, the kind sportswriters are paid to deliver. Then he slams the door with "but I certainly would not say we were good friends" - a phrase calibrated with journalist's caution and a little self-mockery. The "certainly" is doing work: it's not just a denial, it's an anticipatory defense against the assumption that access equals affection.

Schaap came up in an era when sports journalism was built on proximity: clubhouses, late-night bars, long flights, the unspoken bargain of being around greatness without becoming part of the entourage. Sugar Ray (Robinson or Leonard, either way) isn't just an athlete here; he's a cultural force, a magnet for myth-making. Schaap's line punctures that mythology by refusing the flattering upgrade from acquaintance to confidant.

The subtext is ethical and classically newsroom: I was close enough to observe, not so close I couldn't tell the truth. It's also a small act of humility. He positions himself not as a co-star in the Sugar Ray story, but as a witness who knows his lane. In a media culture that rewards parasocial closeness and insider branding, the sentence reads like a quiet rebuke: access is not ownership, and professionalism sometimes means keeping your feelings, and your friendships, out of the copy.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schaap, Dick. (2026, February 19). I got to know Sugar Ray, but I certainly would not say we were good friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-to-know-sugar-ray-but-i-certainly-would-not-45975/

Chicago Style
Schaap, Dick. "I got to know Sugar Ray, but I certainly would not say we were good friends." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-to-know-sugar-ray-but-i-certainly-would-not-45975/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I got to know Sugar Ray, but I certainly would not say we were good friends." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-got-to-know-sugar-ray-but-i-certainly-would-not-45975/. Accessed 29 Mar. 2026.

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Dick Schaap (September 27, 1934 - December 21, 2001) was a Journalist from USA.

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