"I grew up and I became very successful at what I did as a young man. I became a work addict because this was the only way I could get any relief from this pain"
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The sentence structure mirrors the trap: “I grew up... I became... I became...” Each clause clicks into place like a life assembled from externals, the emotional life implied only by its absence until the late reveal of “this pain.” That delay is the subtext: people often don’t narrate their suffering until they’ve earned enough credibility to be believed. Miller’s confession reads like a retroactive diagnosis of a persona he once needed.
“Work addict” is also a strategically modern phrase, importing the language of recovery into the myth of meritocracy. It suggests he’s pushing against a culture that rewards overfunctioning and calls it character. The relief he describes isn’t joy or meaning; it’s numbness, a temporary suspension of whatever hurt predates success. That makes the quote less about individual pathology than about a system of incentives: if productivity is the quickest way to quiet your inner life, you’ll be applauded all the way into burnout.
Miller’s intent seems equal parts testimony and warning. The cost of his early success wasn’t merely time; it was the substitution of achievement for healing, and the haunting possibility that the drive everyone admired was, privately, a survival strategy.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Miller, Keith. (2026, January 17). I grew up and I became very successful at what I did as a young man. I became a work addict because this was the only way I could get any relief from this pain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-and-i-became-very-successful-at-what-i-55559/
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Miller, Keith. "I grew up and I became very successful at what I did as a young man. I became a work addict because this was the only way I could get any relief from this pain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-and-i-became-very-successful-at-what-i-55559/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up and I became very successful at what I did as a young man. I became a work addict because this was the only way I could get any relief from this pain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-and-i-became-very-successful-at-what-i-55559/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.







