"I grew up in a Hindu household but went to a Roman Catholic school. I grew up with a mother who said, 'I'll arrange a marriage for you at 18,' but she also said that we could achieve anything we put our minds to an encourage us to dream of becoming prime minister or president"
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The mother’s two lines do the real heavy lifting. “I’ll arrange a marriage for you at 18” arrives like a door closing, specific and non-negotiable. Then comes the countermove: “we could achieve anything” and “dream of becoming prime minister or president.” The subtext is not that her mother was inconsistent, but that women are often raised inside contradictory scripts: be dutiful, be exceptional; obey, but also outshine. Nooyi turns that contradiction into an engine. It’s a neat rhetorical pivot that refuses the Western shorthand of “oppressive tradition vs. liberating modernity.” Instead, she locates aspiration inside the very household that also policed her timeline.
Contextually, this is a CEO explaining how global leadership is forged in constraint, not in freedom. She’s also quietly rebranding immigrant and brown-girl experience for a skeptical audience: not as hardship porn, but as training. The intent feels strategic and cultural at once - an argument that ambition doesn’t require severing roots, and that the people who seem to limit you can also be the ones who plant the most audacious ideas in your head.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Nooyi, Indra. (2026, January 15). I grew up in a Hindu household but went to a Roman Catholic school. I grew up with a mother who said, 'I'll arrange a marriage for you at 18,' but she also said that we could achieve anything we put our minds to an encourage us to dream of becoming prime minister or president. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-a-hindu-household-but-went-to-a-146878/
Chicago Style
Nooyi, Indra. "I grew up in a Hindu household but went to a Roman Catholic school. I grew up with a mother who said, 'I'll arrange a marriage for you at 18,' but she also said that we could achieve anything we put our minds to an encourage us to dream of becoming prime minister or president." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-a-hindu-household-but-went-to-a-146878/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up in a Hindu household but went to a Roman Catholic school. I grew up with a mother who said, 'I'll arrange a marriage for you at 18,' but she also said that we could achieve anything we put our minds to an encourage us to dream of becoming prime minister or president." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-a-hindu-household-but-went-to-a-146878/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






